3分钟英语演讲稿

　　LearnHowtoSayNo

　　We'veallbeentaughtthatweshouldhelppeople.Itistherightthingtodoandwillmakeuspopularwithothers.Itmayevenwinusfavorsinreturn.However,wemustberealistic.Wecan'tsayyestoeveryrequest.Ifwedid,wewouldfailorgocrazyforsure.Sometimeswesimplydon'thavethetimetohelp.Inthiscase,wemustknowhowtosaynopolitely.

　　Whenweneedtosayno,hereisonemethodwecantry.First,weshouldtellthetruth.Ifwereallycan'tdosomething,weshouldjustsayso.Second,weshouldremembertorefuserequestspolitely.Wemustcommunicateclearly,butmustalsobesincereandsympathetic.Atruefriendwillunderstand.Finally,wemustnotfeelguiltyaboutsayingno.Sometimesrefusingothersistherightthingtodo.Itcansaveourselves,andthem,alotoftrouble.Inshort,wecannotpleaseeveryoneallthetime.Refusingfavorsisapartoflife.

　　学习如何说不

　　我们都被教导说，我们应该要帮助别人。这是应该做的事，而且这样做会使我们受人欢迎。它甚至会为我们赢得一些回报。但是，我们必须要实际一点。我们不能答应每一个要求。如果我们这么做，我们就一定会失败或发疯。有时候我们确实没有时间去帮忙。既然如此，我们就必须知道如何有礼貌地说不。

　　当我们需要说不的时候，有个办法我们可以试试。首先，我们应该要说实话。假如我们真的办不到某件事，我们就应该说不。第二，我们应该记得要客气地拒绝对方的要求。我们必须清楚地表达，但态度也必须真诚并且表示同情。一个真正的朋友会谅解的。最后，我们不必为了说不而觉得有罪恶感。有时候拒绝别人才是我们应该做的事。它可以替我们自己和别人，都省下许多麻烦。总而言之，我们无法一直取悦每个人。拒绝请求是人生的一部分。

　　Goodmorningeveryone

　　It'sagreathonorformetostandheretodeliveraspeechtoyou.ThentodayIwanttotalksomethingaboutdreamsandreality.

　　AsthefamousRussianlitterateurLevTolstoy(列夫、托尔斯泰)said,“Idealisthebeacon(烟火、灯塔).Withoutideal,thereisnosecure(无虑的,安全的,安心的,可靠的,保险的)direction;withoutadirection,thereisnolife.”Sothere’snodoubtthateveryoneneedshisorherownideal.Haveyoueverthoughtthatwhatispracticalandsensible(.明智的,有感觉的,明理的)willconnectwithourmosttreasureddreams?Maybe,tosomebody,realityhaslittlerelationtoideal.Toothersnothingcanbedonewithoutthesenseofreality.Somakeourdreamsapartofourreality.Andmakeourrealityapartofourdreams.Thereisnoreasonwhyourdreamsmustopposeourreality.Improveourdreamsandourrealitybybringingthemtogether.

　　Asauniversitystudent,establishingadreamisoneofthemostimportantthingswehavetodo.Buteveryonemustseetherealityclearlyatfirst.Yourfamilycondition,yourpersonalability,yoursocialintercourse(交往、交流),yoursubjectandthejobyouwanttodo,thesethingsshowyoutherealityandleadyoutoestablishadream.

　　Furthermore,difficultorotherwise,weshouldputthepowerofrealityintoourdreams.Lastbutnotleastremembertoworkhardatthetaskofchasing追逐ourdreams.Dobelievethatwecanachieveouridealstepbystepbythepassageoftime!

　　Intheend,Iwanttosharewithyouapoetrynamed"IthinkIcan"

　　Maybeyoucannotunderstandthemeaningofthepoetry,Butdonotbeworried,Letmetellyouthemeaning

　　Thankyouforyourlistening!