20岁光阴不再来ted英文演讲稿

　　演讲稿的格式由称谓、开场白、主干、结尾等几部分组成。在不断进步的社会中，需要使用演讲稿的事情愈发增多，那要怎么写好演讲稿呢？以下是小编收集整理的20岁光阴不再来ted英文演讲稿，欢迎大家分享。

　　WhenIwasinmy20s,Isawmyveryfirstpsychotherapyclient.IwasaPh.D.studentinclinicalpsychologyatBerkeley.Shewasa26-year-oldwomannamedAlex.NowAlexwalkedintoherfirstsessionwearingjeansandabigslouchytop(宽松的上衣),andshedroppedontothecouchinmyofficeandkickedoffherflats(平底鞋)andtoldmeshewastheretotalkaboutguyproblems.NowwhenIheardthis,Iwassorelieved.Myclassmategotanarsonist(纵火犯)forherfirstclient.(Laughter)AndIgotatwentysomethingwhowantedtotalkaboutboys.ThisIthoughtIcouldhandle.

　　ButIdidn'thandleit.WiththefunnystoriesthatAlexwouldbringtosession,itwaseasyformejusttonodmyheadwhilewekickedthecandowntheroad."Thirty'sthenew20,"Alexwouldsay,andasfarasIcouldtell,shewasright.Workhappenedlater,marriagehappenedlater,kidshappenedlater,evendeathhappenedlater.TwentysomethingslikeAlexandIhadnothingbuttime.

　　Butbeforelong,mysupervisorpushedmetopushAlexaboutherlovelife.Ipushedback.

　　Thereare50milliontwentysomethingsintheUnitedStatesrightnow.We'retalkingabout15percentofthepopulation,or100percentifyouconsiderthatnoone'sgettingthroughadulthoodwithoutgoingthroughtheir20sfirst.

　　Raiseyourhandifyou'reinyour20s.Ireallywanttoseesometwentysomethingshere.Oh,yay!Y'all'sawesome.Ifyouworkwithtwentysomethings,youloveatwentysomething,you'relosingsleepovertwentysomethings,Iwanttosee—Okay.Awesome,twentysomethingsreallymatter.

　　SoIspecializeintwentysomethingsbecauseIbelievethateverysingleoneofthose50milliontwentysomethingsdeservestoknowwhatpsychologists,sociologists,neurologistsandfertilityspecialists(生育专家)alreadyknow:thatclaimingyour20sisoneofthesimplest,yetmosttransformative,thingsyoucandoforwork,forlove,foryourhappiness,maybeevenfortheworld.

　　LeonardBernsteinsaidthattoachievegreatthings,youneedaplanandnotquiteenoughtime.Isn'tthattrue?Sowhatdoyouthinkhappenswhenyoupatatwentysomethingontheheadandyousay,"Youhave10extrayearstostartyourlife"?Nothinghappens.Youhaverobbedthatpersonofhisurgencyandambition,andabsolutelynothinghappens.

　　Andtheneveryday,smart,interestingtwentysomethingslikeyouorlikeyoursonsanddaughterscomeintomyofficeandsaythingslikethis:"Iknowmyboyfriend'snogoodforme,butthisrelationshipdoesn'tcount.I'mjustkillingtime."Ortheysay,"EverybodysaysaslongasIgetstartedonacareerbythetimeI'm30,I'llbefine."

　　Butthenitstartstosoundlikethis:"My20sarealmostover,andIhavenothingtoshowformyself.IhadabetterrésuméthedayafterIgraduatedfromcollege."

　　Andthenitstartstosoundlikethis:"Datinginmy20swaslikemusicalchairs.Everybodywasrunningaroundandhavingfun,butthensometimearound30itwaslikethemusicturnedoffandeverybodystartedsittingdown.Ididn'twanttobetheonlyoneleftstandingup,sosometimesIthinkImarriedmyhusbandbecausehewastheclosestchairtomeat30."

　　Wherearethetwentysomethingshere?Donotdothat.

　　Ateverystageofourliveswemakedecisionsthatwillprofoundlyinfluencethelivesofthepeoplewe'regoingtobecome,andthenwhenwebecomethose

　　people,we'renotalwaysthrilledwiththedecisionswemade.Soyoungpeoplepaygoodmoneytogettattoosremovedthatteenagerspaidgoodmoneytoget.

　　Middle-agedpeoplerushedtodivorcepeoplewhoyoungadultsrushedtomarry.Olderadultsworkhardtolosewhatmiddle-agedadultsworkedhardtogain.Onandonandon.Thequestionis,asapsychologist,thatfascinatesmeis,whydowemakedecisionsthatourfutureselvessooftenregret?

　　Now,Ithinkoneofthereasons--I'lltrytoconvinceyoutoday—isthatwehaveafundamentalmisconceptionaboutthepoweroftime.Everyoneofyouknowsthattherateofchangeslowsoverthehumanlifespan,thatyourchildrenseemto

　　changebytheminutebutyourparentsseemtochangebytheyear.Butwhatisthenameofthismagicalpointinlifewherechangesuddenlygoesfromagalloptoacrawl?Isitteenageyears?Isitmiddleage?Isitoldage?Theanswer,itturnsout,formostpeople,isnow,wherevernowhappenstobe.WhatIwanttoconvinceyoutodayisthatallofusarewalkingaroundwithanillusion,anillusionthathistory.

　　Letmegiveyousomedatatobackupthatclaim.Sohere'sastudyofchangeinpeople'spersonalvaluesovertime.Here'sthreevalues.Everybodyhereholdsallofthem,butyouprobablyknowthatasyougrow,asyouage,thebalanceofthesevaluesshifts.Sohowdoesitdoso?Well,weaskedthousandsofpeople.Weaskedhalfofthemtopredictforushowmuchtheirvalueswouldchangeinthenext10years,andtheotherstotellushowmuchtheirvalueshadchangedinthelast10years.Andthisenabledustodoareallyinterestingkindofanalysis,becauseitallowedustocomparethepredictionsofpeople,say,18yearsold,tothereportsofpeoplewhowere28,andtodothatkindofanalysisthroughoutthelifespan.

　　Here'swhatwefound.Firstofall,youareright,changedoesslowdownasweage,butsecond,you'rewrong,becauseitdoesn'tslownearlyasmuchaswethink.Ateveryage,from18to68inourdataset,peoplevastlyunderestimatedhowmuchchangetheywouldexperienceoverthenext10years.Wecallthisthe"endofhistory"illusion.Togiveyouanideaofthemagnitudeofthiseffect,youcanconnectthesetwolines,andwhatyouseehereisthat18-year-oldsanticipatechangingonlyasmuchas50-year-oldsactuallydo.

　　Nowit'snotjustvalues.It'sallsortsofotherthings.Forexample,personality.Manyofyouknowthatpsychologistsnowclaimthattherearefivefundamentaldimensionsofpersonality:neuroticism,opennesstoexperience,agreeableness,extraversion,andconscientiousness.Again,weaskedpeoplehowmuchtheyexpectedtochangeoverthenext10years,andalsohowmuchtheyhadchangedoverthelast10years,andwhatwefound,well,you'regoingtogetusedtoseeingthisdiagramoverandover,becauseonceagaintherateofchangedoesslowasweage,butateveryage,peopleunderestimatehowmuchtheirpersonalitieswillchangeinthenextdecade.

　　Favoritekindofmusic.Peoplecannamethesethings.Weaskhalfofthemtotellus,"Doyouthinkthatthatwillchangeoverthenext10years?"andhalfofthemtotellus,"Didthatchangeoverthelast10years?"Andwhatwefind,well,you'veseenittwicenow,andhereitisagain:peoplepredictthatthefriendtheyhavenowisthefriendthey'llhavein10years,thevacationtheymostenjoynowistheonethey'llenjoyin10years,andyet,peoplewhoare10yearsolderallsay,"Eh,youknow,that'sreallychanged."

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