middle-age is a crucial period and middle-aged women are facing even more dangers.
　　youth is still lingering on there, but it can’t stand any carelessness or negligence.
　　staying youth can be likened to climbing a steep hill, while negligence will lead to decrepitude overnight.
　　those who feed on their youth will have to opt otherwise at this stage.
　　
　　this is a time full of temptations, alluring girls and glamourous women pop up everywhere, making the discomposed men confused and disoriented, leaving behind more and more broken-up families and abandoned wives, thereby leading the middle-aged to the heartfelt realization that women cannot afford to grow old.
　　
　　beauty parlors are being opened one after another and the cosmetics market is getting more and more prosperous in order to keep the youthful face of women forever fresh..
　　proper facial care, hair-dressing or aerobics are all necessary for women, but they are only superficial and can not last long.
　　they can in no way do the cosmetic make-ups round-the-clock..
　　what will become of them after removing the cosmetics from their face?
　　women need to refine their mind and to make themselves more intellectually prepared ．
　　they need the sense of security too.
　　we may well say that men’s youth lies in their career while women’s youth relies on their state of mind and cultivation because of the rise of yin and the decline of yang, we can see many capable women devising and calculating with all their might.
　　they used to be very beautiful, and are now still charming, but they are middle-aged after all.
　　how long can they still preserve their diminishing youth?
　　what are those women after? money? but will they be happy if they have to count the money with their skinny shriveled hands after they have successfully become wealthy old ladies?
　　maybe they are seeking for spacious houses and limousines.
　　but these are just tools to serve us, just like a motorcycle is for us to ride on, not for us to carry on our shoulders.
　　is it still worth the price if their pursuit has become a burden or a pressure that calls for the sacrifice of their youth?
　　or maybe they need the money for their children to study abroad.
　　but studying abroad is not the ambition of everyone.
　　as we always say that children have their own luck, we shouldn’t choose the same way for them to grow up.
　　doing business or going in for politics, working at civilian posts or as military officials are different choices for different children.#p#分页标题#e#
　　some even want to become chess players and it is such a wonderful career that after becoming successful, they can make playing chess a rewarding profession..
　　why should we try our best to send our children abroad where there are so many uncertainties? what’s the point of the sacrifice of our precious youth to send our children to somewhere that may be heaven, or hell?
　　we should be moderate at seeking wealth, for there is no limit for it.
　　a billionaire eats no more than three meals a day and sleeps in one bed at night while a family living on a meager salary can be very happy and healthy.
　　we may feel sometimes that the luxurious beijing roast duck is no more delicious than the simple pancakes with shallots.
　　only when they keep a peaceful heart can they face both favors and humiliations with composure.
　　
　　what do the middle-aged women need in order to maintain their youth and doomed decrepitude? fine qualities and good manners, confidence and calmness.
　　don’t do too much extra work, don’t tire yourselves out, and never try anything beyond your capacity and energy.
　　
　　what’s more, they need security and friendship.
　　no matter how strong a man is, he needs support; no matter how independent a woman is, she needs backing.
　　the flowery girls may care about nothing but amusement, and they may not consider even the reliability and capability of a man.
　　middle-aged women, however, are much more practical, and they have to face the loyalty and creativity of a man.
　　what they are seeking is the most loyal, the most responsible, the most powerful, the most reliable and the most trustworthy love which is nearly eternal and unchangeable.
　　any kind of strike may wear away their youth which is once gone never to return.
　　
　　middle-aged women must keep a clear head instead of doing things out of willfulness.
　　they should be able to judge who is sincere and who is hypocritical.
　　once they choose the hypocritical instead of the sincere out of carelessness, tragedy
　　参考译文：
　　中年是一个关键时期，中年妇女正面临更加危险。青年是依然存在，但它不能忍受任何疏忽或过失。住青年可以比喻为攀登陡峭的山坡，而疏忽将导致衰老的。这些谁养活他们的青年将有选择，否则在这个阶段。
　　这是一个充满诱惑时，诱人的女孩和富有魅力的女性弹出无处不在，使男人晕头转向，留下越来越多的破碎的家庭和被遗弃的妻子，从而导致中年人士的衷心实现妇女不能变老。
　　美容院正在打开一个又一个的化妆品市场越来越繁荣，以使年轻妇女永远面对新..适当的面部护理，美发或有氧运动都是必要的妇女，但他们只是表面上的，并不能持续很长时间。他们绝不能这样做化妆品使企业全天候..什么将成为它们的化妆品后，消除他们的脸？ #p#分页标题#e#
　　妇女需要完善其思想，使自己更理智的准备。他们需要的安全感了。我们可以说，青年男子是他们的职业，而妇女的青年依赖于他们的精神状态和种植由于银的崛起和衰退的羊，我们可以看到许多有能力的妇女设计和计算所有的可能。他们曾经是非常漂亮的，现在仍然迷人，但中年以后所有。多久，他们仍然保持其减少青年？
　　什么是这些妇女在？钱吗？但是他们会很高兴，如果他们不得不数钱的瘦弱干瘪的手后，他们成功地富起来老太太？
　　或许他们正在寻求为宽敞的住房和轿车。但是，这些只是我们服务的工具一样，摩托车是我们坐，而不是对我们进行了我们肩上。它仍然是值得的价格，如果他们的追求已成为一种负担或压力，要求他们牺牲的青年？
　　或者，或许他们需要钱为孩子出国留学。但出国留学并不是每个人的野心。正如我们经常说，孩子有自己的运气，我们不应该选择以同样的方式为他们长大。营商或将在政治，工作，文职职位或军事官员的不同选择不同的儿童。有些人甚至想成为国际象棋选手，它是这样一个美妙的职业生涯后，成为成功的，他们可以下棋有益的职业..我们为什么要尽最大的努力把我们的孩子在国外有这么多的不确定性？什么是点牺牲我们宝贵的青年向我们的孩子的地方，可能是天堂，还是地狱？
　　我们应该寻求适度的财富，为没有限制的。亿万富翁吃不超过一日三餐和睡在一张床，而在晚上的家庭生活在一个微薄的工资可以是非常愉快，身体健康。有时我们可能会觉得这豪华的北京烤鸭，没有更多的美味简单的煎饼比与青葱。只有当他们保持一个和平的心，他们既面临有利和屈辱与镇定。
　　什么是中年妇女的需要，以维持其青年和注定衰老？优秀品质和良好的举止，自信和冷静。不要做太多额外的工作，没有自己的轮胎，决不尝试任何超越你的能力和精力。
　　更重要的是，他们需要安全和友谊。无论多么强大一个人，他需要的支持;无论多么独立是一个女人，她需要的支持。在华丽的女孩可能关心只是娱乐，他们甚至可能不会考虑的可靠性和能力的一个人。中年妇女，但是，更为实际，他们必须面对的忠诚和创造力的一名男子。他们正在寻求的是最忠实，最负责任的，世界上最强大，最可靠和最值得信赖的爱情几乎是永恒的和不可改变的。任何形式的罢工可能会削弱他们的青年这是一次经历从未返回。
　　中年妇女必须保持清醒的头脑而不是做事的任性。他们应该能够判断谁是真诚的，谁是虚伪的。一旦他们选择的虚伪，而不是真诚的疏忽，悲剧